LMaggz
Forum Member
I know that there arent many girls out there that frequent this site, but for those of you out there, maybe one of you can help me out. My boyfriends brother is getting married, and his fiance TOLD me that I was in the wedding. Said that I couldnt go to Detroit that weekend, because she had made plans for me. (her first mistake) Then, LAST May, told me that I needed to go get fitted for my dress. Lets just say Im a little top heavy and I have a 50" in. bust line. :boobies: Sooooo.... they ordered the dress 4 sizes too big, to fit up top. I knew instantly that there was no way that I was going to be able to wear such a big dress. Well, now the dress shop is going out of business and they called last week. Said the dresses needed to be paid for and picked up by 1/20. I didnt plan on paying for this dress until March, (the wedding is in June) when I got my tax money back, because I over spent during the holidays, and now Im poor. I told her I didnt have the money, ( and I dont want to pay for a dress that I cant fit into) and she threw a fit. Not to mention, I have lost a some weight since then making the dress even more tent-like. This dress cannot be altered, because it would have to go down more than 4 sizes. SO, it has to be taken all apart, cut, and re-sewed. That is going to cost me a minimum of $250. She bought her dress 2 years ago and cant get it on, 2 of the bridesmaids will be 8.5 months preggo in June, my dress is too big, and another girls dress is too small. So, my question to all of you is, what is the polite way to tell her to shove this dress up her ass, because Im not going to be in her wedding?