What did we think was going to happen? We've got people whimpering for an official response from Milan and when we get it we don't like it so we keep banging the drums?
Playing Internet Bullies will never accomplish anything. It's been documented over and over again on the net and without naming sites I know you've had the experience with it.
If you want to make a change you have to communicate directly with the people that can make the changes. Write letters, mail them in with real suggestions on how to fix what you think the problems are. Show what they are and what you can improve by fixing them. Simple stuff. If it's a form letter they all agree to use and sign, fine. But acting like a bunch of school girls on the net from a remake of; "Rebel Without a Clue" will not help anyone.
It's good to be active and it's good to get involved but pissing and moaning on the net is not going to change it.
Rick