Talk about a bad day...fatal on I-96

[orangejuiced86]

Something tells me if this was a story about someone on here the replies would be alittle different, but like normal you have the "Internet" factor and people automatically think they should say whatever it is them may want
to say and it will never get read by someone who knew the victim.

Certain opinions/feelings whether they are real or just for show should sometimes be kept to ones self. And alittle compassion should be shown, because accidents happen and it's the people left behind that do the suffering.

 

[Foolsgold80z]

X 2. It's not real difficult to show a little humanity instead of being a sanctimonious ass. You just have to want to.

 

[phatstang]

well said guys.....+1

 

[Mr Mach 1]

It's sad.

 

[fogged10]

my buddy at work know's this lady really well her names was jakie! all i know she was hot and a single mother and she lived in lakeport about 10mins. north of port huron! it is very sad what happened to her!



r.i.p.

 

[Joe]

my buddy at work know's this lady really well her names was jakie! all i know she was hot and a single mother and she lived in lakeport about 10mins. north of port huron! it is very sad what happened to her!



r.i.p.

Damn, the poor kids

 

[fogged10]

Damn, the poor kids

she has 1 son i think? he is around 10ys old?

like i said i don't know her but i have seen her quit a few times and my buddy has known her for a long time his wife worked with her in fort gratiot!

 

[turbo89gt]

I can not believe what has happened to this thread. Some ones MOM or DAUGHTER or WIFE died! Honestly who knows why or how it happend. But the fact is that it happened.

Until you know (you will never know) EXACTLY why she ended up where she did. It is just ignorant to make a judgment call like that.

If god forbid anythinhg like this happened to someone in your family, and some asshole got on here talking all kinds of shit about them. I KNOW you would be singing a different tune. No matter how many times you say you wouldnt be.....you would.

It's just so easy to be insencitive to someone you dont know isnt it??

 

[orangejuiced86]

You can ask anyone in my family and all of my friends I called my dad a fucking idiot to his face when that happened. Yea I was worried about him but at them same time he made a poor poor judgment call and caused that to happen. Specualte all you want I already know his actions were retared and if you call it that way I would agree.

Let me ask you an honest question. Had you dad dies from his ATV accident, would you have labeled it natural selection at it's best because it was obviously a poor decision on his part(what was written) or an unfornunate accident that obviously could have been prevented? I'm honsetly curious how you think about it then?

Let's not forget about the 2 cars that hit this lady. And the drivers who are now affected also.

 

[nmcgrawj]

I'm sorry if your offended by my post but in all honestly no matter how sincere or how much you paint me to be the bad guy you could give two fuck shits about this lady and what happened. We all know almost everyone on here will read this and go oh thats sad, now what am I eating for lunch today hmmm.. an go right back into what they were doing previous.

If something happened to my family and i posted it on motown, i would be thankful for 15-30 seconds of someone sending good thoughts my way. i dont expect anyone to stop their day, to take off work to come tend to my family. The simple fact is whether or not she did something stupid, or was just confused, its a tragedy to those people that will miss her so much. That deserves respect and that deserves just a moment of silence to send them a prayer or just good thoughts to make it through this rough time. The only time i dont really "care" about a death is someone who has killed/tortured/etc other people. But a WOMAN we know nothing about.....


how many women do u know that dont touch people's hearts? Thats like there purpose here....they naturally take care of other people. As a mother, or a friend, sister or an aunt, shit even as a student i was closer to my teachers that were women than the men.


/rant off

 

[4Gas$]

Let me ask you an honest question. Had you dad dies from his ATV accident, would you have labeled it natural selection at it's best because it was obviously a poor decision on his part(what was written) or an unfornunate accident that obviously could have been prevented? I'm honsetly curious how you think about it then?

Let's not forget about the 2 cars that hit this lady. And the drivers who are now affected also.

A very good friend of mine hit & killed two teenagers
who were simply trying to cross the freeway at night.
They were wearing dark clothes. My friends newer car
was totaled from hitting them.

The police cleared my friend, they found no fault of
any kind on his part. That still didn't help much, he
almost lost his mind, had tons of counseling and to
this day it still haunts him. This happened 27 years
ago - the pain for him never stops.

 

[nmcgrawj]

A very good friend of mine hit & killed two teenagers
who were simply trying to cross the freeway at night.
They were wearing dark clothes. My friends newer car
was totaled from hitting them.

The police cleared my friend, they found no fault of
any kind on his part. That still didn't help much, he
almost lost his mind, had tons of counseling and to
this day it still haunts him. This happened 27 years
ago - the pain for him never stops.

I can imagine. Thats why i would hate to go to war....seems like u will always be haunted by it.

 

[igotaneed4speed]

Let me ask you an honest question. Had you dad dies from his ATV accident, would you have labeled it natural selection at it's best because it was obviously a poor decision on his part(what was written) or an unfornunate accident that obviously could have been prevented? I'm honsetly curious how you think about it then?

Let's not forget about the 2 cars that hit this lady. And the drivers who are now affected also.

If he would have died from it in all honesty, yes; I would have called it a poor decision on his part and that he caused his own death due to his retardedness. Now if he was riding the atv and a tree branch fell on him crushing him or some other form of unfornunate accident then it'd be different. My dad's stupid choice to try and ride up the embankment he did caused his injury.

My dads choice is no different than if someone shot them self in the foot intentionally in my mind, he performed a action that he knew would hurt himself. He even told me he didnt think he was gunna make it up the thing yet he still tried, can we say darwin award for that one.

Now with this lady disorientated or not her action of walking into/onto the freeway caused her death. That is a choice she made under influence from outsie forces or not she did it, no one pushed her out there, no one held a gun to her head and said go walk out, there she did it on her own; her choice at the moment lead to her deimse bottom line.

Now this topic more than likely would be dead if I hadn't made the remarks I did, people would post r.i.p, thats sad, sorry for your loss ect.. the typical sterio typical response that everyone does because it's what society expects and no one wants to be the outsider as I'm being labeld right now. The thread prob wouldn't have even been bumped more than 10 times but I created conflict so nows its of everyones interest which leads to them making them selves look good in front of the group by incriminating from my statements.

I'm not the type to be affaird to speak my mind, I put it on the table and sometimes it rubs people the wrong way. I just do not believe in saying what its socially expected or acceptable just because it may make someone feel bad, thats fake in my mind. I speak my honest to Gods feelings on any subject, even to family. I may have less or more friends because of this but it is what it is.

I do not believe in fate, you create your future, your actions an decisions lead up to what happens to you other than outside forces which no one can control(her crossing the freeway was a CHOICE nothing acted apon her making her do so other than her own decision.). I'm not trying to say anyones right or wrong this is all opnion there is no right or wrong as most everyones implying I'm wrong for my opinon.

 

[4Gas$]

If he would have died from it in all honesty, yes; I would have called it a poor decision on his part and that he caused his own death due to his retardedness. Now if he was riding the atv and a tree branch fell on him crushing him or some other form of unfornunate accident then it'd be different. My dad's stupid choice to try and ride up the embankment he did caused his injury.

My dads choice is no different than if someone shot them self in the foot intentionally in my mind, he performed a action that he knew would hurt himself. He even told me he didnt think he was gunna make it up the thing yet he still tried, can we say darwin award for that one.

Now with this lady disorientated or not her action of walking into/onto the freeway caused her death. That is a choice she made under influence from outsie forces or not she did it, no one pushed her out there, no one held a gun to her head and said go walk out, there she did it on her own; her choice at the moment lead to her deimse bottom line.

Now this topic more than likely would be dead if I hadn't made the remarks I did, people would post r.i.p, thats sad, sorry for your loss ect.. the typical sterio typical response that everyone does because it's what society expects and no one wants to be the outsider as I'm being labeld right now. The thread prob wouldn't have even been bumped more than 10 times but I created conflict so nows its of everyones interest which leads to them making them selves look good in front of the group by incriminating from my statements.

I'm not the type to be affaird to speak my mind, I put it on the table and sometimes it rubs people the wrong way. I just do not believe in saying what its socially expected or acceptable just because it may make someone feel bad, thats fake in my mind. I speak my honest to Gods feelings on any subject, even to family. I may have less or more friends because of this but it is what it is.

I do not believe in fate, you create your future, your actions an decisions lead up to what happens to you other than outside forces which no one can control(her crossing the freeway was a CHOICE nothing acted apon her making her do so other than her own decision.). I'm not trying to say anyones right or wrong this is all opnion there is no right or wrong as most everyones implying I'm wrong for my opinon.

In life, I hope you're shown more compassion than you give.

 

[orangejuiced86]

No Derrick it was your remarks that got a thruthful responce out of most rather then the typical RIP.

 

[igotaneed4speed]

No Derrick it was your remarks that got a thruthful responce out of most rather then the typical RIP.

A truthfull opinon of how they feel, correct.

 

[nmcgrawj]

So the only reason you will feel bad for someone is if they die from something thats not in their power? Like being murdered?


Wowsers.

 

[orangejuiced86]

A truthfull opinon of how they feel, correct.

I used to have the same rediculiously stupid attitude towards life that you currently have. Then I became a parent and I grew up. Evetything thing changed for me. It will for you too. You will get sencetive to things and when you see or hear about something unfortunate you will always put yourself in there shoes.

Not flaming. I completly understand the way you feel. Been there done that.

 

[Stalker]

Is it natural selection and being retarded only if you fail? Some might say that street racing is retarded. Some might say that fighting/boxing is retarded. So since they feel that way, would they be right in saying that even though you're alive you're retarded and a darwin award nominee?

 

[Scott714]

I used to have the same rediculiously stupid attitude towards life that you currently have. Then I became a parent and I grew up. Evetything thing changed for me. It will for you too. You will get sencetive to things and when you see or hear about something unfortunate you will always put yourself in there shoes.

Not flaming. I completly understand the way you feel. Been there done that.

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