what an ordeal!
went to three dealers (two said they had it but one did!)
went to one junk yard
went to the trans place
ended up in birmingham hills...paying f'k dealer prices and I am only using one that does not look exactly the same because the parts guy lookd by my vin and called some help line...so I paid out the ass.
thanks guys still did not get truck back yet, its not like going out to cut the grass