If your converter is shuttering, its bad. However, changing the fluid, and adding anti shutter additive will make it stop shuttering. It will last for about a year or more, and eventually it will come back. (actually, the anti shutter stuff alone will make it stop shuttering)
Coolerline pressure, and main line pressure are not the same. Most vehicles have coolerline pressure between 40-60lbs. Some vehicles (explorers, mustangs with a 5r55w/s transmission have a thermatic valve in the pump that open & close with temperature, and actually have no cooler line flow when cold. Attempting to flush them by attaching a flush machine can cause damage. Also in many fords, crown vics, trucks, have a valve in the cooler that by passes the fluid when cold. That fluid becomes trapped. Each vehicle and each trans is different, so the same procedure for each vehicle does not apply. Sediments, metal, clutch material, tend to accumulate in the pan, and on the magnet(which most vehicles today have) And they accumulate near the intake of the filter. The sediments plug or restrict the flow to the pump. You would be surprised how much shit is inside a filter until you bust one open and separate the Dacron material. Cleaning out those sediments is important.
Changing fluid & filter never makes a transmission go bad. If you have problems soon after replacing both, either the transmission was already going bad, or the mechanic that did the work did it incorrectly or used inferior parts. Many "Murray's" type replacement filters are inferior, and I have seen first hand many failed transmission from a improperly engineered or improperly installed filter.
The 30% number you posted roadster is more like 50-60%, but once again every vehicle and every trans is different.