how do you act when going out to the bar?

GTrackd02

GTrackd02

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So I was just wondering...
I have this theory that if you act like an asshole at the bar less shit comes your way... By This I mean basicly when Im out with my girl and some guy grabs on her, or does something stupid i dont really care for I get in their face and tell them to stop or stfu or whatever i feel is going to get my point accross...
Now, anyone on here who knows me knows I'm not very big 5'8 165-170 or so
But i like to think i can manage myself ok for my size...My approach has worked almost perfectly for the most part.. even with poeple I KNOW I shouldnt be messing with seem to take me more seriously when they know I am not gonna take shit without giving it as best i can......lol

Well last night, because my girl always says that i get into too much shit when we go out I decided to play it cool and not be a dick for once....

Well guess what???...:lol: I didnt get into one fight... nope, I got into two!
What pisses me off is that I was minding my own buisness both times..
I wont get into the specifics, but both were stupid and only one escelated to the point of physical contact..( i am flattered that someone who was much bigger than me needed to get two of his buddies to back him up when I pushed him away the first time..lol )

I have decided that I'd rather be the guy in someones face instead of catchin shit for being nice..:lol: I dont mean that I would start shit with people for no reason, but more like pre-emptive?*sp* agression when i see a situation coming..

Just wondering if anyone else notices this shit???
And how do you carry yourselves at the bar/club???
I think people just piss me off in general these days......lol
And this song comes to mind "I wish I was a lil bit taller".... "wish i was a baller"..:lol:
 
Chris, drunk guys are gonna hit on your girl. As long as she goes home with you who gives a fuck? I would certainly draw a line and if its crossed then the shit would hit the fan, but guys hitting on your girl is no big deal. Let them buy her drinks, its cheaper for you that way ;)
 
I always act like a badass when the situation calls for it. Why look like a pussy? i don't go looking to start anything but if someone wants to start shit... ill finish it. If im at the bar im usually out with a big group of buddies. you fuck with me, you fucked with them and the same goes the other way around.

lol i have a group of friends who like to DRINK! bar fights become a way of life. :lol: but alot of times its between two memebers of our group. :shake: highschool drama still exists 5 years later.
 
BigWheelinBubba said:
Chris, drunk guys are gonna hit on your girl. As long as she goes home with you who gives a fuck? I would certainly draw a line and if its crossed then the shit would hit the fan, but guys hitting on your girl is no big deal. Let them buy her drinks, its cheaper for you that way ;)
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Mike, I understand that... thats not the issue... there's a point where i draw the line(like a guy coming up and smacking her ass when im standing right there..) I can handle a guy coming up and sayin somthin or even dancing with her...whatever, its just when people do stupid shit right in front of my face...

Like last night, we were chillin on a couch, she was kinda dancing/sitting on/in front of me when this guy comes up and is like" you're beautiful" and then says somthing i couldnt understand... then he pushes his hand in my face, rubbing it in and down my face... Then says "youre beautiful, fuck him"...pointing at me.. So I was sitting down... I let it go.... he came back and did it again... So I pushed him and he tripped over a table, I stood up and said, get lost... that was it.... 5 minutes later he comes back with 2 friends and wants to fight now...lol I'm like seriously you need help for me?....:lol: okay... Thats the shit i cant stand....
If i woulda just hit the fuckin guy in the face(thats what my first reaction would normaly be...lol) instead of ingnoring him it woulda been over... thats more or less what i mean about me being an asshole..
 
Dana can stand up for herself just fine, I've seen her and her girls shut people down in a hurry. IF the guy or guys don't take the hint, thats when I get involved.

Those that know me, know I'm not a violent guy.
 
86CamaroZ28 said:
I always act like a badass when the situation calls for it. Why look like a pussy? i don't go looking to start anything but if someone wants to start shit... ill finish it. If im at the bar im usually out with a big group of buddies. you fuck with me, you fucked with them and the same goes the other way around.

lol i have a group of friends who like to DRINK! bar fights become a way of life. :lol: but alot of times its between two memebers of our group. :shake: highschool drama still exists 5 years later.
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I was out with three girls.....:lol: :rockwoot: so there was no back to be had....
 
GTrackd02 said:
Mike, I understand that... thats not the issue... there's a point where i draw the line(like a guy coming up and smacking her ass when im standing right there..) I can handle a guy coming up and sayin somthin or even dancing with her...whatever, its just when people do stupid shit right in front of my face...

Like last night, we were chillin on a couch, she was kinda dancing/sitting on/in front of me when this guy comes up and is like" you're beautiful" and then says somthing i couldnt understand... then he pushes his hand in my face, rubbing it in and down my face... Then says "youre beautiful, fuck him"...pointing at me.. So I was sitting down... I let it go.... he came back and did it again... So I pushed him and he tripped over a table, I stood up and said, get lost... that was it.... 5 minutes later he comes back with 2 friends and wants to fight now...lol I'm like seriously you need help for me?....:lol: okay... Thats the shit i cant stand....
If i woulda just hit the fuckin guy in the face(thats what my first reaction would normaly be...lol) instead of ingnoring him it woulda been over... thats more or less what i mean about me being an asshole..
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You should've beat his ass the first time.
 
If guys hit on my wife I take it as a compliment! I too can handle myself but why be "that guy" the jealous man, boyfriend, or husband! My wife has a nice rock on her finger and I can be standing right next to her and guys dont care. I dont blam them, as I used to play the game so why be a dick? I have had to say (in a cool friendly way) "Hay I am with her, etc.." or "thats my wife, thanks"...after it has gotten out of control before and that was it and never had to be a dick!

I think being a hard ass is just asking for issues, besides I know who she is coming home too!


<---waits for the wife/boss jokes!
 
86CamaroZ28 said:
yea, your kinda screwed in that situation. :lol:
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Apparently My girl hit the guy in the face three times while i was getting dragged outta the bar....:lol:
I know she thinks she's a hardass but I dont think she did too much damage..:lol:(sorry X :) ). But I guess its nice to know she's got my back...lol I would rather she just stayed out of it but..yeah...lol

Other than all that It was agood night none the less. -1 button up shirt for me though :(
 
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BTW... I dont like to fight.. and for all i know I cant worth a damn anyhow....
And I dont think i act like a hardass either...
No more posting pics of said girl......:lol: that went bad in a hurry last time... :lol:
 
for me....i act like i act everyday...BUT I dont put myself in situations like the one you talk about. i dont hang at bars...dont care to put my wife around a bunch of drunk fucks. Dont need the drama...I guess I have grown out of the whole bar scene.
I had this discussion with my brother who hangs at bars at lot. He seems to get in a quite a few "altercations"..with drunk guys and his girl. She doesnt want him to fight but she doesnt want drunk guys hangin on her. Personally...IMO you dont want that?? dont hang in places that foster that idea. There you go...problem solved. No fights..no drunk asses..Just my.02...which really does mean much.
 
Thats the easy way out... :) lol
But you're right on..

LITTLEMAGS said:
for me....i act like i act everyday...BUT I dont put myself in situations like the one you talk about. i dont hang at bars...dont care to put my wife around a bunch of drunk fucks. Dont need the drama...I guess I have grown out of the whole bar scene.
I had this discussion with my brother who hangs at bars at lot. He seems to get in a quite a few "altercations"..with drunk guys and his girl. She doesnt want him to fight but she doesnt want drunk guys hangin on her. Personally...IMO you dont want that?? dont hang in places that foster that idea. There you go...problem solved. No fights..no drunk asses..Just my.02...which really does mean much.
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Damn Chris!I never get into fights at Sabby's.And Im there every week(to eat):lol: And you know what a ruff crowd is in Sabby's:boxer: :lmao:
Well you know me.I dont have a girl and Im rarely at "those kinda bars",so not much advice to give ya.But back in the day,I had to be a prick with or without a girl.Com'on Im 5'6.150 lbs.Everyone wanted a piece of me:chairfall
 
Krazybones said:
If guys hit on my wife I take it as a compliment! I too can handle myself but why be "that guy" the jealous man, boyfriend, or husband! My wife has a nice rock on her finger and I can be standing right next to her and guys dont care. I dont blam them, as I used to play the game so why be a dick? I have had to say (in a cool friendly way) "Hay I am with her, etc.." or "thats my wife, thanks"...after it has gotten out of control before and that was it and never had to be a dick!

I think being a hard ass is just asking for issues, besides I know who she is coming home too!


<---waits for the wife/boss jokes!
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Being hit on, and being grabbed are two very different things.

He said: "when Im out with my girl and some guy grabs on her"

When we go out as a group, everyone sticks up for everyone elses GF's. The line is phsyical contact, grab ass/boob whatever. Thats a :nono:. None of the people I hang out with do that, so we expect the same.



DONG DONG DONG, DONT YOU EVER DO DIS!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P8mBe0_Ha78
 
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I grew out of the bar scene and the fighting scene years and years ago....but if someone puts their hands on you, as you describe, the only reaction that makes sense is an immediate return punch in the face, as hard and fast as you can. No exceptions. That's just my opinion.
 
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