turned down sex because your 'butt burned'?? lets say from eating spicy food or something.
just a question
or fell asleep during a BJer?
"turned down sex because your 'butt burned'?? " This is a pretty shity excuse lol.
I've turned down sex alot of times mostly to make the girl pissed and for her to wonder why i told her no.. Which normaly leads to them trying to fuck you at any chance they get later on.
Now if he's using a excuse like that when you've been together for 4 years... he's lost interest. Shit if he hasn't asked you to marry him and its been that long WTF are you doing still with him.
Sounds like he likes having you around for his convience for sex, favors when he feels the need or whatever other nice things you may do for him.
I that was me and I used that excuse it was problably because I have alternative means of pleasure and just don't want to admitt it.
"fell asleep during a BJer"
This is the funniest shit ever never in my life have I. If the girl sucked at it which you may then I would "coach" the chick to get her to do it how I liked. If the girl just plain out sucked then i'd ask them to stop and just resort to pounding her out instead. If you brushed the teeth again after the first warning I'd stop you as well.
btw maybe you suck or it could be what i mentioned earlier that he's not into you anymore but its comfortable to be in a relationship so he's just along for the ride. < thats what it sounds like to me