Looking for a small hand gun with not a lot of kick. Does such a beast exist? This will be mostly for sport use with my wife, and secondary use is for concealed protection. I realize our differences in hand size will be a factor, but I don't think she'll use it much. Something larger than a .22 please. I know very little so I count on your experience on this one. I will go to a range to try some out, but need to know where to start and what to ask.