Sorry it took me so long. The ground for the ECM is on the front of the right cylinder head. I would pull it off, clean it, and verify that there is not a break in it up to the ECM. Can you confirm that the ECM is getting power and ground? The service manual isn't much help past that. It assumes that the ECM is working for most of the diagnostics. I am not sure how you would check for a bad ECM without having an extra one to swap in and out.
My educated guess (not a tech) is that either you are not getting power and ground to it, or it is fried. I would check every connector you disconnected between the ground and ECM and make sure the pins aren't bent, corroded, or pushed into the harness. If you actually unplugged the ECM as part of the swap, go through the connectors with a magnifying glass looking for an issue.
The problem almost has to be in that ECM power circuit though, or the ECM itself.
-Geoff