20 years today TWENTY FRIGGIN YEARS!!!!

Thank you, and congrats to you because it’s not common in today’s world. I just turned 41 and we are not legally bound by a pice of paper that seems to cause more harm than good. Over the years seems like after the “marriage” a divorce is soon to follow.

There are a few things a couple need to figure out early that kept us together and still happy ;)
 
Dude! Thats awesome! Congratulations. Sara and I have been together almost 15 years. We just got married last month. We worked out our problems a long time ago, so I think we'll be ok.
 
Yea after almost 15 years she’s molded you into a good man. And after 10 there’s no turnin back because the warranty is void.
 
I was with my wife for 11 months before we got married, been married since July 99. I was 20 when I got married and were still chugging along two kids later.
 
Congratulations to all of us.
Do we care to dig into what we think are the keys, might have to move that to the after hours lounge tho because for myself that’s 60%.
 
lone racer said:
Congratulations to all of us.
Do we care to dig into what we think are the keys, might have to move that to the after hours lounge tho because for myself that’s 60%.
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Sara and I just get along really well for the most part. Every now and then we'll have an argument/disagreement, but who doesn't? She gets the whole car/hot rod thing, loves going out cruising, and even helps me in the garage when I need it. And we don't have kids. I think that's part of it too. Less to worry about.
 
Next time things start heating up just remember the only way I know how to deal with those situations is a different perspective, not you and her but her and someone else about to get In a argument/disagreement. How would you allow someone else to have a legitimate argument/disagreement without crossing what ever line you decide for that given situation before you want to punch that person. That works great for me. Between you and me I’m a heartless fuk face with a inability to care about whatever I choose,it’s a horrible flaw and struggle because I have spoken to the most important person in my life in a way that made me wanna go fight club on myself for doing so when it has happened. Now to the point, it’s sometimes hard to remember that he/ she is NOT trying to make him/her mad or upset if it’s something done wrong-get over it, something wanted-do whatever to make it happen he/she wants and prob deserves even if it makes no sense to you. Never ever go to bed mad. When we go to bed we never lay back to back ever, if one of us flip the other automatically adjusts we have each other’s back kinda thing, odd but true. If I step out the door for mail i say I love you see you in 10 seconds. It’s been many many years that a argument/disagreement even really got started because we know the other is not out to hurt the other same with you remember it’s you and her against the world!
 
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